My partner has chosen to continue her pregnancy
You’ll need to determine your level of involvement in this choice. The decision to commit (or not) is entirely yours.
One might ask:
- Do I want to be a parent? Was this one of my possible projects?
- What are my fears about parenthood?
- What is my vision of parenthood?
- How is my relationship with my partner? Do I want to be co-parent with this person?
In the event that the pregnant person chooses to go on to become a parent, it is possible to decide not to get involved.1. However, this requires a legal process under family law, and you’ll need to consult a lawyer about your rights, obligations and possible remedies in this decision. Contact a community justice center for more information or consult a lawyer.
- “Le père de votre enfant n’est pas sur l’acte de naissance, quels impacts?” on the Éducaloi site (no date) https://educaloi.qc.ca/capsules/famille-monoparentale-quels-impacts/ ↩︎